How do you deal with uncertainty?
I run into this a lot in my life. When I am uncertain, I try to take time to think things out. I don’t rush to a decision and also not afraid of making the wrong decision. I can’t say I enjoy the unknown, but I tend to navigate well in it.
I can say my years of experience and situation awareness helps me out a lot. Also I have faith I will overcome and just let things happen.
Assume confidence and execute.
jixi fox 🦊
Which author would you love to have dinner with?
The only author that can be is Shakespeare. Though all gone there would be a cool moment to be had having dinner and maybe even remixing some works. Ha ha.
jixi fox 🦊
What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
The best piece of advice I ever received was to trust in the GOD. May sound like too simple or maybe too religious, but it’s true. It’s where most of all if not all my decisions come from.
Outside of believing, the advice I received that I stay with came from reading books, articles and observations. Be yourself, no matter how awkward, silly, uncool, be you. Just do not compromise yourself for someone else. Live in your truth, morals, and values.
There is rarely any replays in life so, make sound decision and honor yourself, because you choices matter.
jixi fox 🦊
What’s a quote that perfectly describes your outlook on life?
Life is yours to claim. We can’t keep saying we have no choice or options to change. In charge there can be pleasure and there can be pain. If you happen to find a sweet spot you shall be just okay, so keeping working on it.
The quote for me: “live life unscripted”
Allow yourself to not follow a script and build it as you go. Life won’t be perfect and you don’t have to be a follower. But you can write with a pencil and erase parts that didn’t go well.
jixi fox 🦊
What’s a song lyric that has stuck with you forever?
Don’t worry about a thing, every little thing, will be alright! Bob Marley.
This is forever an amazing lyric that will live on forever. I love music so I have way too many lyrics that fall in this prompt, but this is the best.
jixi fox 🦊
Who is your favorite blogger to follow?
Dang, so you going to put on the spot like that? That’s crazy 😝. I can’t say I fully favorite I am following. Let’s say I have a top 3 favorite plus a long list more. My favorite blogger to follow is MentalNotes, her blog is fire 🔥. I am big on poetry, words, flows, imaginary and deep realism, when she writes I feel like I am in the kitchen with her. As she just prepared dinner and I am looking over at the sink from the dining table like where the hell she found these ingredients to bring this meal to life like this. I low key be wanting seconds and to go plate to sit down and eat up in my own time.
If you haven’t viewed or pass her blog, please do. https://mentalnotes1.wordpress.com/
So just as how a dinner was prepared oh man, the next two Tre and Pooja, top tier author/blogger/writer, they hit you with the spices and the variety. Oh so you want sides, and elegance and the fancy plates and utensils coming out, they got it. Both of them cheffing up an assortment of meals, flavors on their sites.
Tre’s blog makes me want to step my game up everyday, how she brings you into her world and showcase life is exciting. It can be like a picture of a fork or flowers, and you be like wow, how did you capture these elements so gracefully.
Pooja blog, oh when you talk about heavy hitter, coming from all angles, real, philosophy, quotes, complete inception into every root, she showcase grace and a style they makes you wonder how to be human and thoughtful to everyone. Just bringing people and world together she shines like no other.
Their sites are:
Tre: https://acorneredgurl.wordpress.com/
Pooja: https://lifesfinewhine.ca/
If you never saw their sites, you are missing out on excellence and grace and quality.
For me, this post was to be short and simple, then I remembered, I am writer too, duh, add those flairs about them. Talk your stuff, as it comes from pure admiration, respect and appreciation for the works they do in the world and the blogging community.
thanks for reading,
jixi fox 🦊
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Oh yea, if you blog/website drop your link in the comments so I can come by and pull up a seat 💺. I love meeting new bloggers, creators and authors ✍️ ⬇️.
unpacking passions
i thought i had a loaded gun
trying hard with my expressions
i held them in for far too long
second-guessing love and work
the world want me to choose
now i’m the source of safety
for others
who really needed a boost
who gonna help me
when I do get there
standing on the championship stage
who gonna tell me
i beleived in you
but they never called to check in
every word was a weapon
they head hunting for cash
my cutoff game been ill
super sickly in the past
but today
i feel i am on a broken path
increasingly proceeding
to reverse my ambitions
to older dates
navigating priorities
my sanity
was better had
how do i save me
no one has a helping hand
jixi fox 🦊
lately i been deleting
greeting discomfort at the door
showcasing the disconnect
and how it disrespect my code
somedays i want to be left alone
i mean without phone
in hand scanning
in some corner instagramming
while people are in famine
it saddens me
for how i want to do more
my core is checking ids
and go to jail cards
as my property
mind body and soul
wants more of me
deep connection
expressive ecstasy
so i must leave
whatever no longer serves well
so no ace
jixi fox 🦊
everyday we share
stories and moments
some drama and trauma
sipping away with gossips
all ears and talk
the tea
jixi fox 🦊